Andrea Cosnowsky
2 min readJul 28, 2020

There’s A Sorrow No One Talks About
When you lose an ex-lover and find out after the fact

Efes Kitap
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I don’t know what made me Google his name. I hadn’t thought of him in years but had never quite forgotten him either. No one had told me he died 6 months ago. No one would have known to tell me. We had briefly dated 30 years ago. His children were kids back then and I never got to meet them. Our relationship wasn’t about commitment but rather practical. He was my ego…

Andrea Cosnowsky

Spiritual leader, university adjunct professor. Blogger & writer about spirituality. Dipping a toe into online community forum www.Rabbicosnowsky.com